Frustration
When we are faced with something new or something that we haven’t had to do before..we can become frustrated with our inability.
You could be cruising life and suddenly you are in a relationship, coupled, maybe you have never been so committed before, that’s new !!
Suddenly you are in a 3 legged race
You have gone from running to stumbling, it’s new, it’s frustrating that you feel hampered, restricted, uncoordinated,why can’t I find the rhythm.
It’s their fault I can’t walk properly because they aren’t trying hard enough.
It takes commitment and sacrifice to find the required rhythm to step in unison.
Frustration is the result of not changing, it only agitates the situation, fear of changing your rhythm , your actions only causes you to stubble over and over more until you become as one.
Yeild a little, the more time you take to understand the rhythm of your counterpart, the smoother your walk and path becomes.
To be of one flesh, to give yourself 100% over to the other, not hold back, is to conquer all before you.
Any withholding within a relationship will cause unbalance and if that continues then everything begins to shake loose , frustration enters, bitterness that the other refuses to change their gait and so on.
Nothing says you can’t stop….stand still…tighten the strap on the joining legs…look into one another’s eyes and start moving ahead again, now smoother, more coordinated, in sync…NOT frustrated anymore.
I know that we all need to stand still when we get frustrated, maybe have a chat about getting our rhythm right, be better synchronised in our walk in life.
It’s easy to blame the other but we are really letting ourselves down .
Give yourself over , don’t hold back..don’t be frustrated.